permission to orgasm

[sexyant100]

At the moment it has only been 2 days maximum between orgasms. I get the urge, play with myself and cant get over the edge. I hate to think what it will be like with no permission for a while. A week sounds horrible

I don't fancy doing teenie weenie or forced gay. they are curses and this is definitely enough for now.

I guess I am at the groups mercy

please let me cum

[CyrilMtl]

Today ? but but you already cumed today, haven't you ?

[littlecaltoy]

it's good to see the file is so effective.
--cal

[OxyFemboi]

sexyant100, you have my permission to cum one time -- and one time only -- on Friday, May 23, 2014 ... but you are not allowed to cum until then.

[Alien4420]

Well the best thing to do is not to play with yourself. Playing with yourself and not being able to come is a million times worse than not being able to play with yourself.

I think I went about two weeks without stroking once, when my cock was pierced. That was as long as I could go before I went so crazy with desire I broke down and did it. So I know you can get there.

[steelchastityboi]

I agree with CyrilMtl and OXdude.

[sexyant100]

[sexyant100]

[OxyFemboi]

[jan]

sexyant100 -

Chastity should make you more submissive, and it should move your focus from your cock to your other sexual areas. Try listening to Mira Stern's 'Impotent', for example.

We are starting to own your cock and your cum, and you should now gradually start to feel more like a sexual receiver than actor - more sexually passive than active.

jan

[Alien4420]

Also, maybe you could try nipple play -- you can get orgasms from that although for me anyway it isn't something that can be done with full effect every day -- and also prostate milking.

Though basically I agree with Jan. Your role should shift to pleasuring others. I've had to make that transition with Teeny Weenie, I can get weenie orgasms but with 2-1/2 limp inches I can no longer penetrate. Whether it's us or a real life partner, coming for you is now is a reward rather than a right, something you will have to work for and earn.

[rgn]

I'm not convinced chastity in and of itself should make someone more submissive. I think there is more of a dynamic involved in becoming more submissive. Especially if asking permission to orgasm from strangers. Although the file does state it has submissive overtones. If one has the desire to be more submissive, it will likely bring that out.

In my mind there is a slight difference between a need or desire to be kept chaste by a lover or master, and the desire for orgasm denial for short periods of time. For some I can see how Cal's curse could be used to simply satisfy tease/denial play. Being kept very aroused as the sexual frustration builds stronger and stronger, the need for release builds stronger and stronger... until someone grants permission... the resulting orgasm would be so much more amazing at this point! Only to start the cycle again to achieve another amazing orgasm.

The trick is to be granted release before the frustration builds up to the point it is no longer enjoyable.

By the way, I have not listened to Cal's curse, but I have had various forms of orgasm denial that required me to do certain tasks or ask permission. My experience is if the suggestions are generic in that you simply give up control of achieving orgasm, you give it up for all forms of sexual stimulation. You will need permission. Period. Any type of sexual stimulation will just make you horny. And frustrated. Have you noticed if things you find erotic make you much more horny than before? Over time I noticed I could get extremely aroused just from an erotic thought or seeing someone attractive. It can be hard to control your thoughts...

[Alien4420]

[OxyFemboi]

[rgn]

[rw789]

[Alien4420]

[responding to rgn above]

Well, it's true that Sexyvant can get permission from anybody but I've been reluctant to interfere with anyone else's permissions and it seems so has everyone else -- if we all start giving permission the file will be no fun. I did give Sexyvant a way out by listening to one of the two dreadful files I've listened to but that was more by way of a tease than anything else. Not that it wouldn't be cool if he were so frustrated that he decided to listen to one.

I know if I were doing it I'd sort of want to be at everyone's mercy. Which I would likely do if it didn't conflict with Teeny Weenie.

I'm not sure what to say about our differing reactions to chastity. The changes I've noticed with T-W were gradual, I first listened maybe six months ago and for the first few months I never went more than two weeks without getting hard and orgasming that way because I wanted to make sure I still could. But I think the weenie orgasms and nipple play may also have something to do with it, they give you a great deal of sexual pleasure and also trigger some (but not all) of your sexual reward circuitry. The other thing is that my testosterone levels seem to have dropped as my balls have gotten smaller. A couple of guys who listened to T-W actually had their testosterone levels mentioned and it had gotten low. They went on supplements but I decided to wait until I'd shrunk more to do that, I'm afraid it will slow the shrinking process.

[rgn]

I am not suggesting anyone interfere. At least not as long as sexyant is enjoying himself...

[sexyant100]

[Alien4420]

You're making me so horny! If you keep being such a good boy I think I'll reward you at some point, give you a bit of unexpected respite when you aren't expecting it. Some time after you've done Oxdude's two weeks, when we've all enjoyed your suffering and are proud of you for staying the course.

[sexyant100]

[OxyFemboi]

[steelchastityboi]

My new Master will remove my chastity device and allow me to have an orgasm, if this board votes and decides to give me permission.

The penis has been locked up in a chastity device for nearly a month now and release for cleaning and exchange for different chastity devices. The penis has been repeated edged without cumming for 2 weeks now. The balls are definitely aching and full.

Votes will be counted on friday. Denial will result in being locked for another 2 weeks before I may beg for another opportunity.

[OxyFemboi]

[penny2]

I vote deny.

[steelchastityboi]

Well the votes are in and i will not be cumming

[im_not_here]

Started listening to Cals Curse twice a day a couple of days ago. I still feel as though I could break the suggestion, but I really don't feel like it. Definitely starting to feel a little backed up though.

Anyone have a suggestion for a companion file to this? A trigger to become more horny, or something more... interesting?

[OxyFemboi]

[im_not_here]

[rgn]

[CyrilMtl]

[im_not_here]

[CyrilMtl]

Must be an interesting feeling,
You want to cum but you stop masturbate because of the file
But you know it's the file and not you ...
Like two brains fighting for the control of the cock

Are you 'forced' to beg for the ok of someone else ?
Can you cheat it ? (Email to yourself, two accounts on the chat/forum ?)

How long does it take for the curse to disappear ?

More and more interested by that file

[im_not_here]

[OxyFemboi]

[CyrilMtl]

Impressive number, so many chaste boys here :)
I tried Horny, doesn't work for me, don't know if it's the file or my way to trance :(

I am looking for that Frenzy one to see if it do the job.

[im_not_here]

Um... wow.

Day 5. I've been listening at least twice a day. This is the first day where I tried "testing" the suggestions...

I can't cum! I spent maybe 20 minutes this morning trying... everything! I must have used up half my lube...

This is completely maddening... :oops:

[diode168]

im_not_here you have my permission this one time to cum once. You may as well enjoy your last orgasm.

[OxyFemboi]

[im_not_here]

[OxyFemboi]

[im_not_here]

[im_not_here]

A bit of an update. My SO found out about both my hypnosis fetish, and Cal's curse yesterday. After a bit of explaining, she gave me permission, but as punishment for getting in over my head, she wants me to pay a "tax" of sorts for every orgasm she gives me permission for. 8O

As of today, I'm her part time butler. Whenever I'm over her house, I'm made to clean for at least an hour. This will last until she gives me permission again (at least one week from now), in which case a new punishment is doled out. :oops:

This is where you guys come in, if you choose to. As evil as she is, she only has so many ideas. She wanted me to ask the WMM community for ideas fitting this situation. Keep in mind that I'm still living with my parents. Any hypnotic tax will have to be relatively covert in its effects.

[Alien4420]

Wow, excellent girlfriend! Not sure I have any ideas but she sounds really cool.

[OxyFemboi]

[steelchastityboi]

It's been 3 weeks since my last orgasm.

I am punishing myself for not coming back on time and asking permission to cum last friday (6/8). I am adding 2 weeks from today. The next time i may ask for permission is (6/23).

Email me at boxershorts417@gmail.com to torture and extend my denial. Each self cock/underwear pic email will add one (1) day. Each cum pic will add one (1) week.

Let me know how good it feels to cum and drain your balls all while laughing at me

[CyrilMtl]

You are such a good boy, are you still listening the cal curse daily ?

[steelchastityboi]

Yes sir i am i have it playing while i sleep

[im_not_here]

Bit of an interruption in my schedule. between a new job, crippling headaches, and no alone time in the house (so no speaker listening), I've been unable to listen for the last 5 or so days. I fully plan to get back into it once I get my head fixed though. My GF really enjoyed my enthusiasm to please her for the week I was chaste. :)

[OxyFemboi]