The forced gay success thread...

by **Dave564** » September 28th, 2009, 2:10 pm

..thanks guys :)

It's been a pretty crazy past few months definitely!

Like I said in my first posts, I've always been a bit curious (or at least I think I did going back and reading it - it's hard to feel like that now!) which is why I started listening to the file.

So many other wonderful things have happened though - he has opened my eyes to so many new things - I feel like my very stale life has been rejuvenated completely - and it's wonderful.

by **OutofTowner** » September 29th, 2009, 12:48 am

by **Alien4420** » September 29th, 2009, 7:28 am

by **ftslave67** » September 29th, 2009, 3:32 pm

I listened to Sarnoga's file and thought it was rather misogynistic.

(On girls turning their boyfriends gay)--if you play with fire . . .

It does require a willing participant (unless she's tying him up & putting headphones on)

by **Alien4420** » September 29th, 2009, 4:00 pm

by **PeppermintT** » September 30th, 2009, 3:52 am

by **ftslave67** » September 30th, 2009, 7:10 am

Well, I still think it's an open question--how much is due to hypnosis, and how much is "just life" or getting to know yourself. Note that before he listened to CFG, he already had the screen name "sissyboyoxford", and had listened to "curse stroke sissy".

by **Alien4420** » September 30th, 2009, 7:10 am

That's it. What an amazing thread!

by **Alien4420** » September 30th, 2009, 8:12 am

by **ftslave67** » September 30th, 2009, 8:57 am

by **Alien4420** » September 30th, 2009, 10:04 am

by **ftslave67** » September 30th, 2009, 10:20 am

Good points--it's really about the communication. And using tact and having respect for your partner.

by **macdaddy** » October 1st, 2009, 9:36 pm

by **OutofTowner** » October 2nd, 2009, 12:44 am

by **ftslave67** » October 2nd, 2009, 6:36 am

Or perhaps arrange for someone to "prank" you by putting it on a loop while you're asleep?

Apparently the lure of hot gay mansex is just too powerful for guys to want to change once they start!

by **hypnomeister2** » October 2nd, 2009, 7:16 am

by **Alien4420** » October 2nd, 2009, 7:20 am

by **Alien4420** » October 2nd, 2009, 7:27 am

by **Alien4420** » October 2nd, 2009, 7:41 am

by **Dave564** » October 4th, 2009, 6:07 am

Guys, I always said right from the off that while I considered myself 100% straight, I had always had curious thoughts - and it's just that I had never acted on them, I wasn't daring enough - and it was as simple as that really.

I should add that also I think people are missing the point a bit if they think this is all about sex, it's simply not true.

Of course, there's no doubt about the fact that we do it and that I do now enjoy gay sex, but what I really enjoy is the feeling of closeness and intimacy with another man - it's something that's had an overwhelmingly positive effect on my well being, and of course having my eyes and mind opened enough to embrace a completely new lifestyle - it's been just totally fabulous.

It's also been the first thing that seems to have shifted me out of the depression I've been feeling the last 3 years.

by **ftslave67** » October 4th, 2009, 7:24 pm

Dave, thanks for posting your story here--you're an inspiration!

I think I got cruised last week at the CD racks at Barnes & Noble, but I didn't realize it 'til later. It was a Sunday afternoon--cute youngish blond guy leaned in front of me to pick out a CD, close enough to smell him--he smelled of alcohol a bit (perhaps a late brunch?). I didn't think anything of it, went to pay (Pet Shop Boys CD) and then noticed he had a "National Equality March" t-shirt on under his hoodie sweatshirt. I would've thought him too young for me, but who knows? Wish I'd gone back & started a conversation--could've easily asked him if he was going, etc. Oh well, next time.

by **Dave564** » October 5th, 2009, 2:58 pm

Thanks you're too kind :)

Interesting story, the guy sounds kinda hot (good taste in music too) - it's a shame you didn't follow it up - but I know how difficult it can be! Even now I'm not sure I'd have the confidence to start conversation with a stranger - maybe next time you will find the courage to do it!

by **ftslave67** » October 5th, 2009, 6:28 pm

Thank you Dave for your words of support!

by **Alien4420** » October 5th, 2009, 6:55 pm

I think it takes some experience, something similar happened to me at the doctor's office a few months back -- it took me a while to catch on . . .

by **angelcraves** » October 7th, 2009, 2:54 pm

this file has affeced me would love to talk to gay guys

by **Ryan83** » October 10th, 2009, 4:55 am

Ok, so awhile back I was saying how this file damaged me, and I really feel like I screwed up by listening to it.

Well, I don't know what it is, the file or maybe my subconscious telling me that I felt this way all along. I just don't know. All I know is, I had things under control, and then something happened.

I was reading an article online and I saw this picture- I had no idea this picture would be here, I had never seen it before. But for some reason, as soon as I saw it, all of my willpower completely broke down. It's this picture with these five or six naked soccer players with their hands around their genitals, just barely covering them.

I tried to resist it- I tried SO hard. But something just broke through and I became unbelievably horny. I just couldn't help it. It was this overwhelming force, like a tidal wave of just pure attraction and pure animal desire that overcame me completely. I wanted- NEEDED- to see what was beneath those hands. It was a wild feeling.

So I don't know. That was pretty powerful, and though the feeling has subsided again (for the time being) it's still there a bit- and I don't know when it will hit me full force again.

Very odd.

Anyway, for all you newly-minted gay men (tee hee)- here's the article in case you're interested, picture included. Tell me that's not hot!
http://voices.washingtonpost.com/dcsportsbog/2009/10/naked_dc_united.html

by **ftslave67** » October 10th, 2009, 6:11 am

Ryan, you might find this interesting:

http://guyswithiphones.com/post/057744/

(not X-rated, just suggestive)

by **Ryan83** » October 10th, 2009, 6:34 am

by **ftslave67** » October 10th, 2009, 7:30 am

Haha--no, it's not going to kill you :)

Just think of it as "expanding your horizons"!

Nothing wrong with liking guys, and deep down you know that, don't you.

by **Alien4420** » October 10th, 2009, 10:09 am

by **Dave564** » October 10th, 2009, 11:37 am

Why not give in to it Ryan? there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with liking men at all, in fact right now making the change has radically improved the quality of my life - and I am just utterly overjoyed with the new me :)

By the way everyone I'm moving in next week - very excited about it!

I'm also going my hair done just before - also pretty exciting lol!

Then Luke and I are going to discuss our plans for me coming out - probably going to do it on facebook.

Does anyone here have any advice or experiences they would like to share on coming out?

by **ftslave67** » October 10th, 2009, 3:11 pm

Dave, Good luck with the coming out! PFLAG has a lot of information that may be helpful (community.pflag.org). Also, HRC.org has good info.

Just be yourself & roll with it--you can never predict how people are going to react. But if they react badly, it's not your problem--it's theirs, basically. And sometimes people can be shocked, initially, but get over it.

by **Dave564** » October 22nd, 2009, 12:57 pm

As of last night - I'm officially living with the new love of my life :)

Things are good!

by **Serra013** » October 22nd, 2009, 1:27 pm

by **Jeshi** » October 22nd, 2009, 9:53 pm

by **angelcraves** » October 23rd, 2009, 11:41 am

i stopped with this file

but being drawn to it again.

just the sound of EMG makes me want to hear this file again.

by **Alien4420** » October 23rd, 2009, 11:56 am

by **angelcraves** » October 23rd, 2009, 12:00 pm

yes congrats dave.

by **Alien4420** » October 23rd, 2009, 12:06 pm

by **angelcraves** » October 23rd, 2009, 12:11 pm

i can't

by **angelcraves** » October 23rd, 2009, 12:19 pm

i would like to talk to gay guys or hypnotists

by **ftslave67** » October 23rd, 2009, 8:04 pm

Dave--good for you, I'm happy for you!

What about the hair--did you go through with the coloring?

by **ftslave67** » October 23rd, 2009, 8:06 pm

angelcraves--feel free to PM me, if you want. I'm a gay guy, not really a hypnotist.

by **Dave564** » October 24th, 2009, 4:12 am

Thanks everyone so much for your support!

Things feel pretty incredible right now :)

ftslave67, I've had blonde highlights done for the moment and I LOVE them, we're going to see how I go - but I think I might go fully blonde within a few weeks :)

I "officially" came out last night, my phone hasn't stopped ringing since last night, I'm not sure what the reaction is - a lot of people are pretty confused - it's early days I guess - no one has been negative or nasty yet - 2 of my closest female friends are amazed and want to come and meet me today. My sister is the only member of my family that has contacted me and she seems to be pretty cool with it.

It's really weird - there are photos of me with Luke on facebook right now! we're kissing in some of them and I'm kinda sporting my new look \ outfits in some of them too - I hope people aren't too shocked when they see them today - Luke wants to upload videos of me LOL but I had to draw the line with that and stop him there :)

by **Alien4420** » October 24th, 2009, 1:15 pm

by **angelcraves** » October 27th, 2009, 2:07 pm

so heres the thing
would a gay guy listen to cursed straight.
Whyy is this so different?

by **ftslave67** » October 27th, 2009, 2:26 pm

Angelcraves--Good question. You mean a "forced gay" gay or a regular gay? For me, personally, I'm just not interested in even trying it--doesn't appeal to me. If someone had suggested it to me in my early 20's, I might have tried it.

by **Serra013** » October 28th, 2009, 10:57 am

by **Alien4420** » October 28th, 2009, 12:49 pm

The forced gay success thread...

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i stopped with this file

Re: i stopped with this file

I can't

everyone who starts one of these threads ends up gay

Re: I can't

ok

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