The Slave/ Submissive Thread

[Subwench]

Not the most imaginative of titles but hey, i'm in a rush to go shopping!

i've started this for us slaves; and no it's not strictly for females (i'm sure you male slaves/subs have your insecurities and stories too).

Please come on in and share you concerns, your stories, your thoughts, your good times and your bad or just relax and have a girlie chat! :)

PS... Frivolous fun and silliness is also welcome.

subwench

[shadowfaerii]

Ahh!.. im horny! do you want to talk about that?

[Subwench]

Why not! If that's what you want to talk about then talk away.....

[Subwench]

This is something i found on another site and quite liked it, just thought i'd share it:

There's something about
Kneeling quietly beside Him
my body bruised, reddened, coated, tired
my mind silent, for once ~ for a time
my head bowed, my eyes closed
my lips quivering as His fingers touch me
my submission, unquestioned
my Peace at Hand

[notyou]

Am I really the only male submissive that reads this board? I'm quite surprised. In most of the other boards I read (like mcforum, emcpodcast, etc), the male submissives greatly outnumber the female submissives.

Anyway, hello and introductions. I'm a twenty something male submissive that is currently married to his SO. We have a lot of gratitude for this site and the ideas it has given us.

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Here's a question to get the ball rolling: What has been your favorite hypnotic experience to date? We're always looking for new ideas to try.

My favorite so far: Walking around the house, collared with a bell that sends me back into trance for 10 seconds every time it rings. Almost every movement puts me under, and after about an hour of this I'm so fractionated that I go under with a stern look.

[Subwench]

Hi notyou, it's nice to meet you.

i'm sure the men outnumber the females here too but people don't seem to post or interact so much on this site for some reason.

My favourite hypnotic experience... hmmm ....

[onewhoknew]

[missypuss]

Personally I only speak when I have something interesting to say......

I dont have to wait to be allowed!How unhealthy would that be?? :roll:

[lettuce]

[stan]

could be this is one of the few sensible threads not typically taking a fetish approach to hypnosis .. 'make me a ..' or 'i wanna be ..'

must say that i've found the fantasy of this site quite arousing yet i've found the content (forum posts) boring. tends somewhat to 'do me' in attitude which makes using the meeting grounds or any correspondance hard.

far easier to go out and meet people, but i've met so very few people 'into' hypnosis in the bdsm world.

[MN_FriendlyGuy]

[jockboyslave]

How about an old time piece?

Left - Hypnotist - Time to spare

Right - Subject - Time to lose

[Subwench]

[missypuss]

[missypuss]

[jockboyslave]

ever think that maybe he/she was being sarcastic or trying to be funny? That's how I took it, got a good laugh from it when I read it too. people take things so seriously, literally, and drastically these days. don't judge a book by its cover and let things just...be.

[Subwench]

Good Morning missypuss,

i agree it would be rather unhealthy!

What i meant was that some people feel they have nothing intelligent or interesting to say but still want to be heard.

i have read some of your posts and you always sound so articulate and intelligent, and to one. who although she can hold her own, it can be daunting to then post. i am fairly intelligent but when i put things down on paper it never seems to come out right, i am so much better at saying it than writing it lol!

My lack of confidence sometimes does not help either!

[missypuss]

I hope I dont put people off posting, I am not as intelligent as I sound, just good at holding my own in a conversation,
Especially about stuff Im interested in,

Like hypnosis, and submission, and latex and leather...mmm :wink: x

[Subwench]

Well i'm still here and posting so you're not that frightening lol

The hypnosis and submission, i can relate too, even the leather but latex believe it or not i havent tried that ... yet!

[shadowfaerii]

I havent run away. i just have nothing more to say than a couple of lines..

[missypuss]

I was just browsing another regular BDSM site I frequent, and was reading some of the posts on there -it seems there are a lot of submissive people with more than a passing fancy in Hypnosis, and an interest in its benefits in a D/s relationship.
WarpMyMind was even mentioned in a post.........!!
Ive been frequenting that site for two years now and never noticed that so many subs are curious yet badly informed about hypnosis.
In fact many believe the myths and hype surrounding the subject.
That it can be used to make someone do things they dont truly want to do.
I personally find it a way to focus my mind completely on my submission to my Master, and incorporate my other fetishes into that.
I was wondering, as one does when one is supposed to be studying, if anyone else on here tied in their use of hypnosis, to their other D/s fetishes? A big passion of mine is rubber and latex, a thing Master is using as an anchor in my mind, with certain trigger words sending me deeply into trance almost immediately, as well as the smell and feel of certain items triggering me too.
Does anyone else use their fetishes to aid them to achieve a deeper level of trance...
:?:

[stan]

[lauramcan]

[missypuss]

[missypuss]

[Subwench]

[Subwench]

[missypuss]

[lauramcan]

[missypuss]

[strictausmstr]

for myself (and I believe for the majority of responsible 'tists/Doms here) it is the inner needs and desires of the subject that matters in a D/s relationship and this is especially so when using trance. I for one like to believe that I can benefit a subject with my influence - if I can't then what is the point?

Once you get past the "oh gee I can really do this" stage it becomes a continual process of exploration and expansion of knowledge and ability. I am often amused by the "subs" who say "just do anything just trance me". Sheesh what a challenge - NOT!

There will always be "players" and there will always be safe and sane people and there will always be nutters.

If the "just wanting to be tranced" is an attempt at removing responsibility (which I agree that often it is) then there will always be those around who will exploit it.

If a 'tist does not explore with a subject first then I would suggest that play is all that will eventuate. For a more serious viewpoint and one that is right on the money for challenging a serious 'tist the comments made by missypuss are correct..... trance is a gateway; what is beyond should be virtually predetermined

That is my two cents worth anyway. By the way - a great thread - keep it up. Hopefully some of the "players" may realise that there is more to this than play.

[notyou]

[missypuss]

[Subwench]

[Subwench]

[lauramcan]

[littlecaltoy]

[Subwench]

i experienced what is apparently called 'sub-drop' for the first time last night; i am still experiencing it. It is not a nice experience. I went from such a high to extremely low at the drop of a hat. i felt and feel lonely, extremely sad, i cried for what seemed an age, i couldnt sleep and havent been able to eat.

Master has tried but even He has not been able to help this girl snap out of it... not yet anyway.

Has anyone else experienced this? If so how did you deal with it?

[stan]

[littlecaltoy]

[notyou]

The closest I've ever felt is anxiety/insecurity for a day after play, which are only shadows of the experience you've described. I didn't know about sub-drop before, thanks.

For me, talking about it helps, jokes help, tickling helps, and having a loving partner helps. Hope you feel better soon.

[lauramcan]

You know....i didn't think i could comment on your subdrop experience because i never knew to label the experience...but come to think of it, i have definately experienced a bit of depression following an intense experience. I agree with Notyou....talking about it definitely helps because when you look back at it, it seems just so intense and its kind of scary, and yet weirdly in the past....almost like "wow, did that actually happen?". I don't know...maybe it was just like this for me. I didn't know how to feel about it all, and i became very introverted and sad for a few days. Talking about it definately helps, because it puts things in perspective. If you played with someone you are intimately involved with, i can only imagine how much help He would be to you! Let us know that everything works out ok :)

[missypuss]

[Subwench]

Hi all,

Thank you all for your messages and support; they actually meant a lot. I am feeling better thankfully!

Master did a lot of talking and a lot of reassuring with lots of cwtches (hugs) thrown in.... the main reason this girl is back to feeling herself again.

It has been a horrible experience which i wouldnt like to go through again and hope none of you go through it.

Missypuss - the 'scene' beforehand had been long, intense and highly pleasurable. When the 'drop' happened Master knew something was wrong and tried to talk and reassure me but i just couldnt talk and isolated/withdrew myself. Big mistake.

Thanks again,

alysia

[littlecaltoy]

[lauramcan]

[Subwench]

[claymore58]

Sub drop is thought to be caused by the consumption of endorphins by the body. Those neuro chemicals that control moods.
Eating either bread or chocolate as mentioned above,(right after the scene)can help to ward off the effects for many.
The replacement is important,as are the hugs and the talk after a scene.
all good habits to get into now,so keep those treats on hand;they are more important than they seem.

[alysia_M]

[toriiscrazy]

hey my names tori and I dont have a master yet my screen name is toriiscrazy@hotmail.com if anyone wants to get to know me