orientation

[gork151]

might be nice if there was some way to add orientation of members so that you could find like minded members... male dominate.... submissive male ....female domme .. female sub...ect

[sandy82]

[gork151]

i have shared pms thinking i was speaking to someone with one intrest when they were not even the sex or orientation i thought and tried to look at journals but can never figure out if they are male or female... when someone has a name like sandy i could not tell .. or bonnie or a host of other sn names

[sandy82]

[gork151]

its ok sandy -- a grew up with sandford (sandy as my best friend and next door neighbor)... and then there was sandy down the street .. i understand the possiblity of male or female having the same name --i dont care that much - i dont spend much time in other forums and i am not really trying to meet someone here... i just thought and still do , that it was a good idea... i will slink back to my hole....

[cardigan]

Regarding the name Sandy - isn't it more or less a rule, that a male individual would have his name spelt 'Sandy', whereas a female would use the spelling 'Sandie' instead? Or do both sexes more or less use both spellings completely at random nowadays?

Ah - the good old days, when men were men and women were scared stiff! :P :P

[sandy82]

[missypuss]

And what would Gork be short for?? I agree with Sandy .. The only way to determine the sexual orientation of someone on the site is to spend a little time paying attention to them via the forums, through the journals, and Private messages..try it , it really does help.....!!