How do you use Hypnosis in a D/s bdsm relationship

[EMG]

Since we seem to have several people actually participating in this forum I figured why not ask a question or two. So, How do you use Hypnosis(from the viewpoint of the Dom or sub)? Is it to increase the level of control you have, adjust their limits, make them experience fantasy situations that you may not be able to do in real life? Other??

[missypuss]

Personally, I use hypnosis as a way of installing triggers in my mind, that allow the Dom to have significant control over me,
Unfortunately, the man I am involved with lives a considerable distance away from me,
But has been sending me files aimed at deepening my submission to him, as well as setting me assignments on a regular basis to discover if the files I am listening to are having the desired effect,

As with all long distance associations, I feel the limit of my submission is based heavily on a modicum of trust in that he has to trust that I am doing what is asked of me, and I have to trust that he has my best interests at heart at all times.

There is also the added frustration that we are probably never going to meet up in RL........

But the hypnosis in its way is helping with that ,in that I feel he is constantly with me, another suggestion I am sure..

[Subwench]

A suggestion that all Doms who live a distance away seem to use...

At the moment the hynosis is mostly used to help with my training, i had some issues with certain aspects of submission and the hypnosis is helping me get passed them; or rather has helped me passed them.

Master has used it to create different scenarios etc, even one i wouldnt experience in real life. That was different but amazing.

[missypuss]

Can I enquire subwench, about what the issues were that you had?

I only ask because I am waiting to see how far my limits extend, if anywhere with my current Master.
So far I have not encountered any problems with my training and am curious to hear of others experiences?
I feel that I have found (finally) a good match for me and my needs, I think that is the most important thing when embarking on something like this.
I have had my limits pushed before by other guys, because they did not understand me completely. And that just made me switch off completely.
Is that your experience?

[karie]

[Subwench]

The issues i had were mainly about the level of control, trust and allowing myself to ‘open up’ to Master.

Even with my family and friends i have always found it hard to open up and show how i feel or share problems/concerns. Master is helping me overcome this with hypnosis. Though i have made big steps with this i don’t think i’m quite there yet.

Without going into details my previous Dom pushed hard, too hard at a limit and it has taken me a long time to overcome this ’betrayal’ (don’t know if its quite the right word but it‘s close enough and it sure as hell felt like i had been betrayed). i don’t think he would understand any sub/slave.

Due to this experience i shut myself off but my submissive nature did eventually push me back towards this lifestyle (took a few years though). Someone i knew suggested that i visit this site to help with my issues and the rest is history.

Yes like you, missypuss, i do feel i have found the right match for me and my needs, Master has been very kind, understanding and most of all patient. He has broken down barriers and shown me another side to myself, to my submission. For that i am grateful.

[missypuss]

Thankyou for sharing that subwench.
I understand all to well about the limit pushing... but you live you learn and its not until someone who repects your boundaries comes along, that you realise how much you have been pushed in the past.
At least thats my experience!
And pleased to meet you!!
Its nice to find some more females on this site finally.
Perhaps between us we can add some feminine touches.... :wink: x

[strictausmstr]

Carefully......

Like any relationship D/s is based on trust and a lot of giving from both sides.

When hypnosis is introduced to the equation that trust level is deepened.

I have used trance extensively in the training and teaching of submissives and generally it is a tool for overcoming specific areas of difficulty or obstacles. For example one lady I was working with found it next to impossible to stop eating chocolate :) and this was upsetting her as she felt it was disobedient to eat unauthorised sweets (she wasn't wrong)... a few tweaks through trance and she found herself only able to have the smallest piece of chocolate before it tasted terrible :)

As for the deepening of submission - yes missypuss... it is a great tool. Using the subconscious to keep working on the innate feelings of submission 24/7 is wonderful.

Whether you choose to allow the subject memory of the trance session or not really depends on the content and where the subject is at emotionally.

When full trust is gained I use trance to lay a submissive's mind totally open so I can do some "gardening". Often upsetting past experiences can be locked away or minimised and pleasurable experiences can be enhanced. By laying the mind open the submissive is giving absolute control over to her Master.

I am pleased to say that it is also a wonderful tool to enhance or limit the sexual experiences of the submissive.... particularly when you are not physically there.

When not physically there trance provides the next best mental fulfilment

[missypuss]

[Subwench]

you're welcome missypuss and it's nice to meet you too. It is nice to know that there are other women around; i'd almost given up all hope of finding any!

As for this site... it could definately do with some feminine touches lol.

[EMG]

[Subwench]

shame ....... lol

sorry, i just couldn't resist!

[EMG]

[missypuss]

Careful or you shall make me jelous..EMG! :lol: xx

[EMG]

[Subwench]

ok you two... keep it clean. :lol:

[missypuss]

[claymore58]

As a Dominant male, I've found that hypnosis has not only helped deepen
submission,but to bypass and unlock elements of my pet,that she dreamed totally impossible.
Being at a distace can be difficult,but following up in voice is a definite plus;be it skype,yahoo,or telephone.
The amount of contact and discussion,I think is an integral part of our relationship.
But the evoloution and growth I have seen her experience,is a beautiful
thing to behold.
and richly rewarding for both of us..

[HypnoWraith]

I use hypnosis in a variety of ways. My first usage was to lead women to deeper levels of submission. I think of it as a mental gag reflex, where they want to submit, but they suddenly stop. Afterwards, they insist that they really wanted to. This isn't getting around hard limits, but more an issue of easing into new areas.

The second is for more of a mental domination. For instance, I find freeze triggers far more sexy than using handcuffs. Turning sensations on and off allows you a level of control you wouldn't be able to reach through normal means.

Finally, and most importantly, the conversations while in hypnosis give me a much deeper understanding of the submissive. The hypnotized submissive is usually more honest and direct. I'll use hallucinations of scenes, body changes, and events, and then gauge the responses to determine future actions, both in trance and in normal BDSM.

[MegaMaster]

There is a lot of ways. To use Hypnosis in Bdsm.

My personal favorite is Visual tiggers. Such as seeing someone make a Perty Diamond or Gemstone ring they are Wearing. Flash or Sparkle. In front of someone else's Eye's and the other Person going into trance or there power and doing as they Command. :D

Then there are Audio Triggers. Such as someone Snapping there Fingers to bring someone else out of Trace or Wake Them Up. 8)

Then there is Text triggers that can be used in E-Mails, Chats, Messanger Programs and on paper to Trigger someone. :)

[bandler]

What about a BDSM scenario 'test drive'?

What would be a good scenario to tempt someone into giving BDSM a try?

[phil]

Remember you can't make someone do something they don't want to do.

However, I suspect that many do have an underlying kick for light/mild BDSM anyway, so you probably could use it to unlock a few doors, if the suggestions are phrased correctly.

[bandler]

[stan]

All of the above?

It's just a very powerful tool.
Perhaps it's better to ask what do you do in BDSM that hypnosis can work with to enhance, heighten, dull, mute, alleviate, exacerbate.
And what can you do with everything so much *more* of whatever it was before.

[CharredSoul]

[Judy-Anne]

Is there any file to make me more submissive to my wife, knowing that she doesn't agree with me listening to that type of files, i mean a file to increase my submission to her especially and not any other mistress... without trigger because i m french, so no chance that she speaks to me in english!

[hypnoidf]

jib, for information, some french files exists :)

Jib il existe des fichiers en francais pour cela, contacte moi en privé si tu veux plus d'infos.