Honesty

[saffy672200]

Has anyone here really seen big life changes because of the feminization files? I only ask because it seems to be that people make vague claims, or talk about how they were already transexuals, but we don't seem to hear too many recent accounts of, say, someone listening to Stroke Sissy and ending up with some real, irresistable compulsions as a consequence.

So, please, how have these files actually affected you in the real world?

[bucketwarrior]

I'm straight, and I've never seen any lasting changes, but I've been able to temporarily change my mindset and alter my behavior into a new personality. It's very sexy on a temporary basis.

Like you said, I believe anyone who claims overwhelming changes were likely already transexuals.

[Lobotaru]

My experiences agree with Bucket. I'm a heterosexual male, and while I've definitely experienced temporary changes as a result of listening to files, I've never experienced any change in lifestyle. Some people have fantasies about being in a girl's body temporarily. I could also see some people who are bisexual or homosexual looking upon feminization files as a way to experience something different, yet temporary. Of course you also have those who are transsexual, and those would be the individuals that see long term change.

[Liann]

[missy]

i have been a secret dresser for years.but never entertained being with guys,until i listened to some mp3's which i allowed to include being totally feminine and involved cocksucking andf wanting men.honestly...it did make me want to.depending how often i listened it made the desires stronger.but it was from a variety of files some not from this site.so it may just be the ones i used.but it is still effecting me.and i'm becoming more accepting of it everyday.even without listening.so be careful,make sure you really want to be attracted to men and sucking their cocks. :wink: but i did desire to be totally feminine.i did stop listening to them as i became a little frightened by how powerfully it effected my thoughts.but the desires are still lingering.so i'm leary about listening....but i still want to listen.i just stop myself.if i dress,it brings me back to where i was and controls me to seek the files more and more.

[Jacoburline]

I think feminization for a lot of people is a somewhat fleeting interest. There are of course the people who desire complete feminization and a complete change to their lifestyle, but I think there are a reasonable number of people who try out files just to see what types of results happen...and those people are perhaps more testing out the results of hypnosis more than anything else. They want to see if a hypnosis file can, for example, make them desire something entirely different than what they've more or less been brought up to desire. Just trying a file out a few times probably is not going to change 18+ years of social conditioning.

I think it depends on how far people want to go with it...and I think many (if not most) do not want to go very far. They are just playing around with hypnosis, which is fine.

Incidentally, I think those people are less likely to make a lot of comments.

[Liann]

[DKaiser]

[winters10102003]

hi tried this file curse stroke sissy out the other day a random pick if you will. i played it one and half times although i never finished the file due to being interrupted. I still feel its hunger effects of wanting to re-listen to it . but i count myself lucky though never finishing the file . if i did i would be sitting here cross legged in a 1950's house dress,heels ,stalkings , and the familiar taste of lipstick on my lips. my sissy name still calls me which scares me until i listened to this file i never had a female persona and i refuse to say it but .. shes hungry now and her name is Vivian .

[Jacoburline]

[iamli3]

@winters10102003

huh -.o , interesting name.....

[Liann]

[Jacoburline]

Let us examine a couple of terms for a second...I'll just refer to what Wikipedia has to say on the subject as a basic starting point.

Brainwashing: "Mind control (also known as brainwashing, coercive persuasion, mind abuse, thought control, or thought reform) refers to a process in which a group or individual "systematically uses unethically manipulative methods to persuade others to conform to the wishes of the manipulator(s), often to the detriment of the person being manipulated."

Socialization: "Socialization is a term used by sociologists, social psychologists, anthropologists, politicians and educationalists to refer to the process of inheriting norms, customs and ideologies. It may provide the individual with the skills and habits necessary for participating within their own society; a society itself is formed through a plurality of shared norms, customs, values, traditions, social roles, symbols and languages. Socialization is thus ‘the means by which social and cultural continuity are attained"

There are certainly similarities between these two ideas. I am well aware that I have been socialized, or to use your term, programmed. That is obvious to anyone who has studied sociology to any extent. I am not so quick to call that socialization a completely negative thing, which explains why I use the term "socialization" as opposed to "brainwashing." Socialization is a complex process that can be beneficial as well as detrimental to individuals; you seem to think that it is entirely negative, which is at best an uneducated view. In fact, socialization is absolutely essential for a society to function at all.

My next point is that I am not using a complete absence of evidence--I am using my own experiences as a starting point, the experiences of others who have spoken to me on the topic, and, indeed, the second and third posts within this very thread! So your argument that I am arguing from an absence of evidence is false. Incidentally, I am most certainly not being hypocritical. I did not say that categories are completely useless; my point was really that you shouldn't dismiss a possible category without any basis for such a dismissal. I have done no such thing. So, you are wrong on that point as well.

Finally, my theory is not something that really needs to be backed up with more files. There are plenty of files already posted on this Website that more or less cater to the idea.

You might want to respond to this post, but please don't. I do not want to waste any more of my "no-doubt-valuable" time arguing with someone who is being unreasonably antagonistic and generally unpleasant.