Abusive X Owner, Need help from Dom hypnotists

[hallucinative]

[outkast1728]

you're not allowed to have triggers on the forum posts you nitwit!

[hallucinative]

@outkast1728

That is why i suggested PMing triggers, but i assume keywords used in general hypnosis or used as pushing points wouldn't be such an issue inside a thread, It was more of a warning in case some one replys with something that might trigger some one else XD

Hall

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[demigraff]

[sfhole2stretch]

[Midnight68652]

Hmmm I'm a bit of a novice but hypnotism i have done to people can be very strong and life altering without them kicking it out. (depending on the individual of course)

My idea is alittle nasty but. Next time your under don't have her remember it but relive it. Make her mind to back to it so you can find out what he did directly and completely. Its an idea so it might not work but its worth a try. Though doing this could cause her a lot of pain you'll have to work out after if her mind doesn't fracture from it.

Best case is it works and you'll just need to confort her if she remembers when she comes out.

Though the worst case(absolute worst) is reliving the horrors causes her to go psycotic. (not the killer kind but the perminately instilutionalized kind.)

Though most likely when it gets to bad if theres any free will left in her. (any fight agianst obediance) her mind will kick the hypnotism off or force her mind off knocking her out.

[cumcontrolboi]

(felt a random impulse to respond to this thread with my two cents; use what you will, discard the rest; clear it with her as you need to)

Similar to the last post, perhaps instead of re-living the experiences which may have been traumatic to her...

Perhaps you could just have her re-hear the things being said, like a TV on in the next room, overhearing it... if she can voice the things she heard, instead, perhaps the memories of the words being used can be recovered. And, like a TiVo, perhaps she could fast-forward through the unpleasant.

There's a possibility to have her re-imagine it from the point of view of him, if there's any unconscious memories bubbling up from the depths, like unsettling a heavy toxin that has finally settled to the bottom of the pool, and then letting it settle back down again. Something I learned in Human Anatomy class was that 'the dose makes the poison'. You can make an anti-venom using a venom, or build up resistance to it through metering the dose to be the smallest necessary, the way an innoculation works by introducing a sample, a harmless sample that can be overcome by the body. However, if trying to 'remember' it from another point of view re-images herself experiencing these things, that's why I suggest the mental distance from the event.

If being in the 'mind' or experience of him would give her a sense of power over the situation (in memory), there could be a chance it could show her that there is no magic -- it was all in the mundane and crude and base. And true spirit ascends well past that.

Blessings, love, light, and well wishes in healing.

[QueenCleopatra]

I think you should leave this to a professional. What she went through sounds more like violence combined with hypnosis. You will probably get a really, really, bad abreaction. And you really need to know how to handle an abreaction.

I can't see the point in inviting a whole list of triggers. Her unconscious mind has them all.

[saaass]

my pet was the same i had to remove so many triggers from her including suicide triggers i did it with deep trance if your pet trusts you then use old triggers or just hypnosis to get them deep make them know that your deeper and in more control of them than there ex was after there at that point have then take all the triggers given to them by there x and alter or remove them it is a very risky task and they need to trust you completely the deeper you go the better and make sure you tell them that the triggers wont activate in the trance not even triggers placed to protect the triggers

[Jeshi]

[Guuliar]

I agree, the pet/owner relationship at this point in her life is bad. Her aura is so warped and twisted right and her mind is like a field of weeds and thorns with her in the center of it. Her thoughts must feel like nails and jagged rocks. She needs professional help, and if she's let you into that circle, she needs you to help her with it. What a person thinks they are seeking and what they are truly seeking are two very different things.

If she can't seek professional help because of trust issues, then it's your job to help guide her to the point that she does. You need to help her stretch that aura out and relax it. I'd suggest gentle forms of meditation coupled with visits to the zoo, petting zoo, some sort of non-sentient warm body connection. Lots of outdoors experience, camping, hiking, fishing. Connecting with nature can really help clear her aura. Be sure to leave tech behind minus the phone, but use it only for emergencies or regular check ups but never socially.

After that, and her aura starts to grasp at other people easily again. Seek professional help. Even if she feels better at that point, some issues have a habit of trapping you no matter what you do.

[chymos]

You said she has serious trust issues when it comes to therapists....yet you say she trusts you...

Consider this possibility: take her to a therapist, and be there WITH her, to support and protect her, to help her know she's safe because you're there to protect her.

[mindscythe]

"Needing" professional help doesn't mean that either of them are able to afford the right professional help. I'm sure there are many people that need help from an experienced professional to deal with an issue, but finding someone with just the right skill is likely to be difficult, let alone paying for their services.

I don't know if that is the case of the original poster, but on behalf of anyone in a similar situation with financial limitations who reads this later, thank you if you have taken the time to post something constructive and helpful here.

[Tangy]

[qv]

Tangy, dude, not the time or place for that kind of shit. I think we can honestly say we're all legitimately concerned, so please don't accuse other people of having anything to do with the abuse, jokingly or not.

It's not funny.

[angel123]