Girlfriend wanted

[CharredSoul]

you are at college? is there no girls there to strike up an interest with?

[bandler]

[mutatedbunnyboy]

Try going for an a "less attractive" girl, she might suprise you.

[CharredSoul]

help create shifts in their personalities to suit your needs which requires alot of work effort and energy, or you can create a shift within yourself, majority of women go for personalities, thats where men need to start to look at if they want a relationship, not saying they are going to be unattractive, but you will find the quality of women go up if you start to look at their personality.

what is it that you want in a womens personality?

what would it be like?

map it all out

one of my favourite trainers has a saying not to go for the women that are on a scale 8-10s, thats what i used to do, not anymore, because i like obedient girls

then start to go for the secondary gains, such as looks, money ect..

you will start noticing those types of women, what you tend to focus on is what you get.

[CharredSoul]

you are a psychologist at a college?

are you a teacher?

you would have read alot on womens psychology then?

if want to strike up with a women that is of quality it all goes beyond looks and shallowness, it is just at that age group thats what is high up on their priority list. and that is basically all your are going to experience. experience women outside of the college, more experienced women(in life) women that have had a wide range of experiences there are lots out there and you'll start to find that it does actually go beyond the looks of a person.

[VanWilder]

[Plaat]

If you want. not boring, go lower, be they won't be "easy", as I can tell you.

[Mutazoa]

Well truth be told I myself would love to find a girlfriend off a site like this, simply because it I wouldn't have to ease a new girl into hypnosis (of any kind). But I've long since learned that going for a girl just because of her looks can be more trouble than its worth most times. How many times have you gone to the movies, paid your $20 for tickets and soda and popcorn, sat down and 30 min. later was thinking "God this movie is a pieces of crap..I can't believe I just blew $20 on this."

If you want a girlfriend you need more than just a pretty package. you need a compatible personality, and some common interests. Unfortunately, it seems that the more attractive a person is, the bigger their ego, and the less likely they are to find a compatible personality.

Pretty girls grow up with guys fawning over them and they get use to it, and start to think that they're special and can get any guy so why not get the super handsome ones. Handsome guys get use to girls fawning over them and think the same thing. You get to people with inflated ego's in a relationship and nothing good can come of it. Two Type A personalities going head to head is not conducive to a stable, long term relationship.

Step back and examine your motives. Do you really want a serious stable relationship, or just a great looking long term sex partner?

[renzhee]

oh ,.as the same situation in chinese. :D

[Gnostic]