Can't get over a hypnotist that abandoned me

[Si1verange1]

I have imagined, if there is an afterlife--some sort of Hell or purgatory to which souls go, what sort of torment could await hypnotists who plant suggestions that compel many thousands of lonely souls to them.

Still. Verdict is clearly for Elena. Evidently someone needs a lot more training.

[Jadit]

[Si1verange1]

Elena is a dominant Mistress. She is the Queen of her own profitable website.

So the analogy of an "evil" queen is an acceptable subjective opinion, but when you show up in her lands you're a guest, a peasant. The Queen selects her own society, then shuts the door. Game over.

[Jadit]

Sure, but you just described what i've said long ago about her acting like a dictator on her site. She using all rights for her own selfish reasons, disgarding feelings of others, doesn't make it right from the perspective of other people. If hypnotist cannot take responsibility, he/she is as good as nobody in my books. Sites like that don't belong to present day, the behavior was common in medieval times.

[EntrancedVulpine]

This illustrates a few of the many reasons I do not suggest ever getting attached to a dominant who is more statue-eque than an actual person you can have true one-to-ones with, ESPECIALLY if you've gotten attached simply from listening to files. Don't ever do that, dude. Seriously. I've been around long enough to see these types though, they linger all around professional domme sites, and it doesn't even have to involve hypnosis.

As someone else said, it's the "lonely hearts" type that typically falls in this hole. I'm sorry for you guys.

In terms of having trouble washing away those hard feelings, you're not alone. When I first saw the topic of this thread, I had been reminded of my own straggled emotions for a particular dom in the past who I was working personally with who abruptly let me go (I'm not looking, by the way). It took forever to get away from those hurt, bitter feelings because his move was entirely irrational and he had already sucked me in by being emotionally intimate during hypnosis. Dropping the L word in trance is a terrible thing to do if you don't live up to it.

Anyway, this isn't about that.

Move on, buddy. It's not even worth it getting close to someone from afar like you have. Go find someone real. Establish some solid trust with a person and some sincerity before you get trapped in their web.

I'm sure Elena has those she keeps close, but I'm also certain many of the ones who fuel her site and wallet are generally not those types.

Go find something real, go find something that isn't abusive. More importantly, make yourself strong as an individual. As a submissive, do not become entirely dependent on a single person. You can allow yourself to feel vulnerable and helpless; controlled, if you want to, but don't actually let your sanity to become aligned with whether or not something works out with a dominant. Bad juju, man.

Fortify your mind before letting yourself go so when shit hits the fan, you'll be okay.

Good luck.

[trudes]

Jadit looks like the good guy to me. :/ This Elena chick looks like the embodiment of everything wrong with the whole dom/sub thing. Namely, immature children who call themselves "doms" when they really mean "I'm irrational, I don't give a fuck, obey my every command please!" Sad part is, because the internet exists these terrible, terrible people have access to legions of willing admirers. And when they get bored, these "doms" just sweep their submissives away like dust. Kinda fucked up. :P

[Endo]

5 months. Everyone shut the fuck up about this already.

[EntrancedVulpine]