Jocks and getting older

[rugbyjockca]

Kind of a serious sort of discussion, but since I'm now in my late-30s it's something I think about from time to time. I've known guys interested in being jocked who are all ages, right up to their 60s and older, and I'm a firm believer that it is never too late to get into a gym or discover a sport that you love.

That said, the popular image of a jock is of a younger guy, teenaged-to-maybe-30s. I'm lucky in that there are lots of role models in strength training, and even in rugby, of guys in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who are real jocks even if they aren't necessarily competing in their sport....Muscle bears and muscle daddies are great images for me given my goals as I age: I know I have time to get big enough to consider myself "big", because there are men who've done it.

But, no matter how talented or genetically gifted, everybody slows down a bit. The image of an old man wearing a tank and a backwards baseball cap and acting like a teenager is used for comic effect more often than not. And while a college-aged dumb jock is hot, who wants to be a middle-aged man who can't do math?

Most of the older-jock templates I see in popular culture are more of the ex-jock type, and some of those images strike me as a little bit sad: guys whose glory days are long gone, who sit on their couches watching younger guys live those moments that they can no longer enjoy.

I'm curious if anyone else thinks about how they will live as an older man who is a jock. When you reach your jocking goal, how do you imagine your life as you get into your 40s and beyond? What do senior citizen jocks do for fun?

For our guys who are on this journey later in life, how do you see your own finished product? What do the older jocks look like? What are your fears and challenges, but also, what are the pleasures to be found in the jock's later years?

[MN_FriendlyGuy]

[greatsmilesd]

Rugbyjockca,

MN_FriendlyGuy has provided a great response. As an older guy (63 fast approaching 64) who has not been nearly as consistent in my lifting and diet as MN_FriendlyGuy, I would just add that it is easier to STAY in shape, maintain healthy eating habits than it is to get BACK into shape if you don't.

I am still able to lift and feel good about my progress, but leaning down is a real problem.

So stay dedicated, it is really worth it!

[slyfox]

[greatsmilesd]

Skyfox, GREAT attitude! Hold on to that.

[HypnoBodybuilder]

I'll turn 41 in next week, and I can honestly say I'm having the time of my life, and, if anything, I'm more and more jock as the years go by. I didn't start lifting unti I was 31. Although I've never competed of stage, I will. My 27 year old pro-card holding trainer marvels at what I do. I work put at a college gym, so I lift with young frat guys and jocks all the time - and they accept me. Hell, I've even had to show them my ID to prove my age - despite my subtle wrinkles and graying goatee. They tell me all the time they hope they look as good as do now - in their 20 year old skins. Lots of things have happened and still do. How far can I keep going? No idea, but I intend to enjoy the fun of it. Do I want more? You bet.

And yes, I have an 86 year old Veteran who lifts 4x a week at my gym. I swear I'll be him.