WarpMyMind

Hi!

I've been curious for a while now so I figured that I would try out the Hypno-Slave file. I made a new profile for it here becuase I am a little self consious. I set up an e-mail addy specifically for it too.

I listened to the file for about 3 hours yesterday, and I looped it and played it all night while I slept, and I listened to it for two hours today while I was meditating.

I'm 22, female (not transgendered, its all natural), and a College Student studying Psychology at ASU.

While I would prefer a female to trigger me (as I don't want to kinda do any kind of sexual stuff or like be forced to do something gross like take pictures of me touching myself and posting them or anything) but as long as it is kinda tasteful it doesn't matter.

Willing to try just about anything even DL/Incontinence stuff, just please nothing too public ok?

E-Mail is: TheHypnoGirl@yahoo.com

Oh well but she is not too far off.... talking to other females from here, this seems to be the usual "request". See my long posting in the multi-page email slave thread

On the nature of hypnosis....

A lot of people on here don't have a clue. Sorry EMG to say that about a lot of the clientelle but let me give you an idea of what I mean.

There is a reason I asked for a female trigger... Which I did not get... Two people who both contacted me were male... I am sickened to say that the first thing anyone wants it seems is me to send them my picture. I went along with that one...

I say went along with for a reason... Hypnosis cannot (not even a curse) make you do anything you really don't want to do. I will say that this one's pretty strong to fight off though. One of the two people who contacted me wanted:

My name, age, sex, a photo, and my primary e-mail addy...

There is a REASON I had a seperate e-mail account for just this kind of thing. Unfortunatly I wasn't able to really stop myself from giving the real one out. Lucky for me once I realized what I did I had sense enough to block that user's e-mail from my primary account.

The second person talking to me turned from what looked like innocent experimentation into something that really struck a nerve with me and luckily snapped me out of it. First of all for one of these guys I had to explain step by step how to properly send a freaking e-mail slave e-mail... Grrr...

So I don't know if the file is still working anymore since I disobeyed orders already. Though if the next person who contacts me starts in on this whole:

"Send me a picture of you"

I am going to start fighting right there. I am not a source for your masterbation material.

This is really saddening, and i can really understand if this takes out the fun for the whole hypnosis thing. Usually you would be better off to get to know the persons here, and then maybe contact one in private.. this may give you a lot better result than this public posting. There are some great, serious and helpful persons around here, i had the fun and honour to meet. And i also try to give that "good feeling" i was able to experience to others too. That there are also great and memorable ways to experience hypnosis.

It is really to bad that this seems to be the "usual" reaction female postings produce, and it is really that way. I did not talk to every female here who posted publically, but for those few i talked to it was like all the same, a 100% quota for dumb requests.

There aren't many females around here, and i guess even less on the "dominant" or "triggering" side, all i have met so far were definately on the sub side, so another reason you may not find many females that are willing to "play" with you, to trigger you... but there must be some out there too, so don't give up the hopes. In fact i know a girl who likes hypnotizing other girls, no clue if she is still around here tho. If you want i can ask her if she is interested in working with you.

I already wrote a long posting about all this in the other thread, so i will not go into more details again, you can always look up this other posting from me. I hope you may still find or meet a person here, you are able to have some fun with. To find what you were looking for.

Too bad you made all those "bad" experiences so far. It is always nice to see who you are talking to, but i will not "request" pictures, i wait till i get them offered voluntarily, cause i earned the trust. And i won't mind if i get none at all.....
Just have to say i got to know one of the greatest persons around that way, and it was worth every second of it!

DianaW, I am so sorry to read about your experiences. I'm also a woman on this site, and I too have experienced men behaving in this manner (although the behavior was only during attempts to trance me, since none of EMG's files have worked for me). You should not have been treated that way, and while, yes, we all take risks on the internet, you should not be forced to take all responsibility for the pervy nature of some men.

The thing is that you requested that a woman trigger you, not a man. Both these men ignored that request. You also said that you wouldn't mind a guy emailing you, so long as the orders were tasteful. Tasteful can mean a lot of things, yes, but from your post, it was very clear to me that you wanted to test a trigger for yourself. You wanted a fun, interesting experience. And these two men ignored your very clear boundaries and asked you for inappropriate information.

If anyone wants to say, "Well, asking for primary emails or for information isn't exactly the opposite of 'tasteful,'" go ahead and say it. It might not be tasteful or in bad taste, that's true. But it's terribly inappropriate and unsafe.

It's also a complete abuse of power. Hypnosis is based on a lot of trust, and while, yeah, you can't trust people on the internet, that doesn't mean that people who are abused should take all responsibility. The bottom line is that, yes, DianaW took a risk. But so what? These two men deliberately ignored what she wanted so they could get their own kicks and giggles, I suppose.

While I have met and spoken with many nice, respectful men on this forum and in the chatroom in the past, I have also experienced very degrading treatment at the hands of some men here. Never from women, only from men. It's a gendered issue, I think. I also think that's why not a lot of women post here, or advertise that they are women. We don't feel comfortable or safe in a place where trying to experience a kink means putting ourselves at the mercy of men who have no respect for women.

If it happens to some men, here, then feel free to think of it as a power issue. It is a power issue, after all. Of course, in American society at least, gender inequalities create a power unbalance that is so incredible, women are disempowered. So whether it's men taking advantage of submissive or young men, or taking advantage of women, it's a power thing.

So don't tell DianaW, "Gee, we're sorry about what happened. It really sucks, and I wish it won't happen again. But honestly, men will be men, and it's what happens on the internet."

Instead, we should be hearing, "Gee, we're sorry about what happened. It really sucks, and I wish it won't happen again. In fact, let's talk to EMG about this and make sure that the guidelines and rules are incredible clear, and let's get him to make an announcement about how inappropriate this behavior is."

Don't say that we can't stop it, even if it's true that we can't prevent this behavior 100%. But being a role model and raising awareness is important. Blaming DianaW, who has been victimized, is absolutely ridiculous.

Lissar: first, i read your post, and it seems to me that you're unfairly categorizing all men in the 'asshole' class. just because a couple of idiots didn't have the brain capacity to respect limits does not mean the rest of us with an extra appendage do as well.

Second, as far as i'm aware, no one even came close to blaming DianaW. the most i could find - stretching it considerably - is Blink's post. As far as i've gathered, the entire tone there is that he's seen someone stub their toe, and offered a few helpful suggestions so that they don't lose thier leg as well.

Thirdly - and this is my own personal observation - many guys tend to be overzealous simply BECAUSE women don't announce themselves. When there's so few - or seems so, anyway - guys tend to rush in and hurry things up considerably, before another guy can come along and ruin it. Not that i'm excusing in any way the guys who possess no brain. But if there were only 50 (genuine) guys on the internet, and one announces that he's available, would you not be intrigued?

Just a thought.

My name is Master Greg, and you probably won't care about what I have to say, but I'm going to rant and discourse anyway because over the last few years I've seen more than I ever care to have seen.

People are power hungry, people are unethical, and people are stupid. To most people on this site, this is a game, to almost every person on this forum, on this site that has never downloaded a file, it's a game, they think the other person is roleplaying and they think it's a fantasy that's being played out.

This is false. Hypnosis is real, and its effects are real and longstanding.

Then there's the people who know its real who prey on the people who think it's roleplaying. The people who see someone just vague or nieve enough to suggest a course of action and they take control before the target knows what's going on. Those people are dispiciable and untrustworthy, yet in this environment they tend to get power too quickly and too deeply.

So yes, it's dangerous. But what can you do?

Well, there's a few things. First of all, don't give out ANY trigger to ANY person without talking to them first. Learn to make someone trust you, make them jump through hoops. A subject OR a submissive is NOT a welcoming mat, they are a person, and some "Doms" or "Tists" need to be reminded of that.

Secondly, try finding respected members of the community. I don't intend to promote myself, but we ARE trying to build a good community in the chat, but NOBODY seems to stop by there. If you want to chat, then come chat. There are people there you can trust and we DO regulate it, so try us out at least.

Finally, I offer this.

ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN A TARGET, get in touch with me. I promised myself I wouldn't do this anymore, as it takes up a lot of my time, but I AM here to help, and I always will be.

Like I said, these words will probably fall on deaf ears, but until there is RESPECT in this community, you will NOT be rid of me.

BOTH SIDES are important to this thing, let's all try to remember that and be adults, hmm?

So the chats got better? Someone i knew got triggered and "abused" in there, and since then i stayed away from the chat. That someone was maybe a little bit blue-eyed, but i never really trusted the chat anymore since then.

Well I obviously can't promise complete safety but we do our best, we have a good op core and a few trusted hypnotists/triggers. It's better than jsut throwing random triggers around anyway.

I never said no boys,

I said boys are ok as long as they are decent guys. Sheesh

I'm decent! :D

Isn't that similar to the line "Trust me"

ANy man that says he is decent or trust me is surely not. And only a man that said he isnt would be.

Dont trust me.

But i said the words trust me in that sentence so that means you cant trust me.

The issue isn't trust, it's the anonymous nature of the internet. People aren't protecting themselves anymore, they're handing over the keys to their mind in an instant to people that re basically complete strangers. I can't stress enough how real this stuff is, and anyone who thinks it's a game or thinks it won't work should probably back off.

Please, PLEASE, people, take the time to at least talk to someone before you tell them your trigger. Get to know them, foster SOME level of trust, don't make it easy for predators, PLEASE.

now I'm sort of confused! :wink: