by Alien4420 » June 23rd, 2013, 7:52 am
Sroush,
I agree with what the others have said so won't repeat it. I just wanted to add that what you're going through is normal when you're sexually attracted and in love, particularly at your age, when hormones are at their peak, and when you don't yet have other action. The main point to remember is that other guys are as sexed as you are, and gay sex is easy to come by. So you won't stay frustrated for long. The important thing is finding people who share *your* desires and interests, since a willing partner is always going to be a better partner than someone who's dragged into it (assuming you even could).
One caution about the get him drunk suggestion -- it can work, yes, but while it can lead to something more, it can also put a strain on a relationship, because depending on how they feel about that kind of stuff some guys will be freaked by what they've done and end a friendship once they sober up. So best not to plot it, just let it happen if it does (and without your friend being so under that you'd be guilty of date rape!).
Of course, if your friend is open minded or curious, there's nothing to say that you couldn't convince him to do it. Friends are strongly influenced by what their friends are doing, and if you're having fun with hypnofiles he may want to have fun as well. But for all sorts of reasons, moral and practical, it has to be voluntary.
Finally,